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You can heal from all trauma


"...and the time came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom"

Release your pain!

Reclaim your joy in life!

Gain control and live fully!

You can heal into wellness and wholeness!

HealingPoint describes the turning point during each therapy session in which the client’s perception changes from drab to colourful. Different trauma, stress and distress therapy modalities are used for the most efficient and effective release of emotional pain. 

Trauma is a burden you cannot afford.

You can grow through and from difficult situations!


Sonja Simak is a trained Integral Traumatologist and a registred Natural Health and Neuroauriculotology Practitioner. 



For more than 15 years Sonja has provided effective, unique, not otherwise available trauma intervention treatments.  She is associated with Traumatology Services International, Natural Healers Asoociation and Ethnomedical Practitioners Association of South Africa.

Her efficient trauma counselling services, provide immediate resolution, both physically and mentally of individual traumatisation.  Effective trauma healing restores the individual to normality, gaining control of day to day living, without the use of drugs.  There is no long term therapy involved.

When people suffer from negative emotions or stress related feelings, such as Angst, panic or overwhelm of any kind, rational thinking tends to have a distorted perception of the world.  With Sonja's expert guidance, through step by step healing processes, people can begin to see life more colourfully and clear.

This is symbolic of the restoration of all parts of the body as well as wholeness in life!


Trauma can be healed!

While trauma is part of our life experience, you do not need to suffer lasting ill effects. At HealingPoint we recognise your right to healthy unlimited living.


service-emotional-trauma Emotional Trauma

Effective trauma treatment includes healing of all trauma. Crime related incidents such hijacking, armed robbery, rape, etc can be resolved with one session only.

Sudden losses of any kind, such as - loss of loved ones, marriage, job or other can be very traumatic. With safe and empathetic intervention you will feel better within one session. Abuse of any nature, which may build up over time leave unresolved emotional scars. While it may seem uncomfortable at first, the relief of these burdens allow for the full colour spectrum of life to emerge. Read more.  

service-stress-management Personal Life Coaching

Stress management with Personal Life Coaching is a natural follow on to our treatment methodologies. Re-connecting and feeling safe in life allows for healthier living bringing forth feelings of happiness and joy to be experienced naturally.  Read more.

service-systemic-solutions  Family Constellations

The clearing of subconscious ties through the facilitation of Family Constellations re-establishes the client to regained purpose in life. Life matters! Your belonging is enhanced claiming your freedom to be within the flow of life. These workshops have its roots steeped in Family Constellations. Read more.

service-wow-together Wow Together

It is through the healing of trauma, or, as we view it, acknowledgement and healing of ‘pain balls’, that partners in marriage, or otherwise have re-connected and regained strength. From this our Wow Together program has been developed. This program encourages partnerships to be held in love. Trust and respect are regained and life together is experienced as fun. Read more.


Family Constellations Workshops
Regular family constellation workshops are hosted.
For further information, kindly leave your details in the contact page OR click on the Upcoming Constellations Workshops link below to make your booking :- sonja@healingpoint.co.za


11 February 2017 Saturday 1096 Chateau Avenue, Allens Nek ROODEPOORT 9:30 am

12 February 2017 Sunday 1096 Chateau Avenue, Allens Nek ROODEPOORT 9:30 am
17 - 19 February 2017 TRAINING Friday/Saturday/Sunday 1096 Chateau Avenue, Allens Nek ROODEPOORT 4:00 pm - 4:00pm
11 March 2017 Saturday   Second wife's Club Sandton 9:30 am
12 March 2017 Sunday 1096 Chateau Avenue, Allens Nek


9:30 am
17 - 19 March 2017 TRAINING Friday/Saturday/Sunday 1096 Chateau Avenue, Allens Nek


4:00 pm - 4:00pm
 22 April 2017Saturday 12 Anderson Lane,  Lambton, GERMISTON  9:30 am
 23 April 2017 Sunday  1096 Chateau Avenue, Allens Nek


 9:30 am


Family Constellations Training
FAMILY CONSTELLATIONS TRAINING in Johannesburg Imagine Yourself as a Family Constellations and Systemic Solutions Facilitator My next course starts 17-19 FEBRUARY 2017. If you work with clients individually or in your professional setting, this basic module in Family Constellations Training will give you a deep understanding on how to use systemic work effectively with your clients. Psychologists, psychotherapists, counsellors, clergy, social workders, body workers, life coaches, school counselors, marriage and family therapists and consultants will find the family constellation perspective to be a valuable addition to their practice.  Ironically, the more we understand the family system, the more completely we can support the individuals who come to us in finding their way to wholeness and well-being. Testimonials from Trainees Training Information Read more. Healing Process BENEFITS PROGRAM CONTENT & TOPICS The specific content of each program is customized to meet the needs and interests you bring into our learning circle.  This topic list is a starting place for us to use to address constellation work in professional practice.  

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    January 06, 2016
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  • Discovering Wholeness

    July 09, 2015
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2nd Wife’s Club

2nd Wife in Family Constellations
2nd wife  


Family Constellations

with a view on the 2nd wife and her relationship to her husband and his children and their children

Newton'w 3rd Law of Love:- For every happy 2nd wife, there is an equally unhappy and opposite-looking ex-wife 


The first wife will always be the first wife. The second and following wives take on ranking after the first wife.  

Children born from the relationship of the first wife will remain a higher priority ranking to the 2nd or following wives. This means that the husband will always first be father to his children from his first marriage/partnership and secondly be your husband.  

The 2nd wife can and will never become the mother of the children of another woman. This does mean that the parent relationship to the parents of the children - that may well be living in your home - needs to be honored.  

The new relationship, marriage/partnership, has higher ranking than the relationship to the mother of his children. A first wife has basically 'given up' her right to be your husband's woman. She only holds the right as the mother of his children.  Nothing more, but nothing less either.  

Yes, it can, and does get complex.  To learn more join us for upcoming events of our 

2nd Wifes Club


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